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When it comes to
sustaining
a
relationship
of the heart, it is just as important to say "I was
wrong
" as "I love you."
Listen up, guys. Here are a few more:
- I am lost.
TV's Roseanne
summed up
what the male gender has to
offer
the world when she observed, "Men, they sure know how to
fold
maps."
- Here, let me.
Say it.
Go on
. That wasn't so
hard
, was it? Watch the inflection, though. It shouldn't be
mistaken
for "That's man's work."
- I don't know.
That's a tough one, but admitting you are
clueless
acknowledges
you are human. Half of the
appeal
of "I don't know" resides in simply paying attention to a dilemma that might not even register on your own. Never invoke "I don't know" dismissively. It is supposed to be followed with another three-word expression: "But I care."
- It's more important.
Three little words. It tells her that the
priority
of visiting her family
carries
a little more
weight
than a WWF Smack Down.
- Please forgive me.
Tougher
than pronouncing "aluminum" when you are 2 years old, but it reveals, once again, that you are human (a step up on the evolutionary chain for some of us). "Sorry" doesn't always get it.
- I'm so lucky.
Don't say it in bed. Everyone is supposed to feel lucky 30 seconds after sex. Say it at a stoplight or at her friend's wedding.
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